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RELATIONSHIPS: 7 Ways To Get Closer
Wanna show how much you care? Try some of these tips to get closer to your guy or girl.
1. Find nonverbal ways to connect with your partner after a fight.
Feelings of fear and shame drain blood from the area of the brain that regulates language, which means no one is making much sense. Bring your sweetie a cold drink (for example) to remind them that things are okay.
2. Do something nice for your significant other’s family and friends.
Want a powerful way to bond? Show your guy/gal that you care about the people important to them.
3. Stay in the present.
Obsessing about the past and future could rob you of happiness right now. Are you getting what you want or need right now? Then consider taking things a day or moment at a time.
4. Take 10
Unwind and cozy up. Transition from the pressures of the outside world and compose yourself to be with your mate — much the way you’d take “a breather” if you had a crazy morning just before a big presentation.
5. Stop saving lovemaking for last
Men’s testosterone levels are highest in the morning, and you (both) aren’t exhausted from a long day — so try sex in the morning. You can even set the alarm 15 minutes early to ensure some alone time.
6. Work it out
The stress hormone Cortisol is a big libido killer in women — and exercise can help to banish it.
7. Don’t shrug off contact
“When you’ve had that kind of day, just letting your partner massage your shoulders or stroke your arm can relax you,” says Ann Kearney-Cooke, Ph.D. “It doesn’t have to lead to sex — but you’ll find it often does, because touch can comfort, console,
Source: Shape.com